Take ownership..

Galatians 6:7 KJV
Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

You are responsible for your own actions and the times of passing on the blame are long gone. People don’t want to take ownership of their actions instead they want to justify their deeds by blaming one another; blaming situations and even blaming God. When God gives you time on this earth He gives you responsibility over whatever you have. You are accountable for your marriage, family, work, and etc. 

The way you handle your responsibilities describes who you really are. If you treat any of your blessings recklessly you’ll receive reckless results. Take care of your household; take care of your health; take care of your wife; take care of your job and take care of your life because the day will come when there is no turning back and you can’t fix the mistakes you have made. (Luke 19: 17)

S. Mlilo